
I love talking to people about their aspirations. I really do. But there is a dark side to goals and what we often think of as “motivation.”
I have a lot of goals. Last week I confessed that I wanted to be a doctor, a pilot, a CEO, and a Senator before I die. I admit that I was at the pub at the time. But I am sure that I will likely not do any of these things. I don’t have a problem with this though. I like listing these as goals anyway.
The problem I have with goals is something different. I have a problem with their power.
Growing up I learned a lot form motivational speakers like Tony Robbins and Steven Covey. I learned from them that:
- Anything I wanted to achieve, if I really wanted it and I was willing to sacrifice whatever was necessary, I could achieve. For this reason they say quite rightly that the hardest part of achieving something should come in the decision-making, right at the beginning. When you understand the power of goals, you realize not to set them lightly.
Many people go wrong by setting too few goals. Many people underestimate themselves and therefore set goals half-heartedly.
But for those who have confidence in themselves and set challenging goals, there is a hidden dangers.
Tunnel Vision
Focus on one thing, necessitates less focus on other things. Businesses experience this all the time. A recent Boston Globe article discussed how General Motors’ failure was partly the result of company goal setting. All of GM doggedly focused on regaining the 29% market share they had once held. Focusing on this meant they ignored profits. They slashed sales prices when they should have cut costs. Everything became about achieving the almighty 29%. So, part of the power of goals is that they are non-reasonable. Once agreed the goal itself becomes the reason. Naysayers at GM (and there must have been a few) weren’t heard because by questioning the goal they seemed to be talking nonsense.
I had a friend who was so obsessed with her goals that she seemed to be running on autopilot. It got in the way of her seeing other possibilities, much like what happened at GM.
Don’t get me wrong. Goals can be great. And I really do want to achieve everything I can list, that I might enjoy. I would like to gain every possible skill. I would love to speak Spanish for example. And maybe one day you’ll find me performing surgery on a fellow Sentator, in Spain, while flying. Maybe.










































