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Randy Komisar is a good guy. He’s a Sil­i­con Val­ley CEO. Lis­ten­ing to him speak is like being sat down by your down-to-earth uncle, who wants to give you career advice. Komisar is good at giv­ing inter­est­ing advice about ‘fol­low­ing your pas­sion’ with­out sound­ing trite or overly moti­va­tional.  A lot of us get stuck on ques­tions like “what is my (one) pas­sion in life?!” Rather than wor­ry­ing about the right answer to that ques­tion, he rec­om­mends think­ing of your pas­sions as a port­fo­lio of inter­ests. Then just try to match your inter­ests to the oppor­tu­ni­ties in front of you. As long as you’re mov­ing in the right direc­tion you’re get­ting there.

(If you only have time to watch one of these, watch the first one).

In this sec­ond video, Komisar dis­cusses stay­ing bal­anced. The bal­ance changes as your pri­or­i­ties change. He talks about money, oppor­tu­nity and power (the 3 things peo­ple always wish they had in the career) don’t always come in the same pack­age. We need to be care­ful that our career doesn’t take up too much of our lives and some­times it’s worth it to say, sac­ri­fice money and power in order to increase opportunities.

He also sug­gests that we should never put our­selves in a sit­u­a­tion where we can’t say no, by hand­cuff­ing our­selves to too many oblig­a­tions (i.e. hav­ing too many time or money expenses). Keep your eye on the ball (your val­ues) and, as much as pos­si­ble, give your­self the free­dom to make the changes that respect the balance.

Real­ity check: When Komisar cut back in his life he went from being a full-time CEO to a doing part-time-CEO-temping. He made heaps of money as a CEO and, when he cut back, he made slightly-smaller heaps, but still prob­a­bly more than you and me and every­one who will ever read this post com­bined. It’s eas­ier mak­ing finan­cial sac­ri­fices when doing so doesn’t mean you’ll have to make any real sac­ri­fices at all.

Still, I think he’s giv­ing us some good advice here.

Randy Komisar’s book is The Monk and the Rid­dle: The Edu­ca­tion of a Sil­i­con Val­ley Entre­pre­neur.

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Caring Advice from Old People

December 18, 2009

Seth Men­achem is an LA direc­tor who, in his spare time, asks elderly strangers for advice. I grew up far away from my grand­par­ents and I’ve lived over­seas, away from my own par­ents, for a long time. Maybe this is why I love these clips from Life Advice from Old peo­ple.

These are two of my favourites:

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Day-to-day I’m a very happy per­son, but I worry A LOT about mak­ing the right choices. I worry that I’m not spend­ing enough time with my fam­ily. That I don’t write enough. That I don’t spend enough time out­doors or take the time to cook bet­ter meals. That I don’t know where in life I should set­tle down. That I work too hard. I think the good life is about shar­ing mean­ing and enjoy­ment, so to me what Seth is doing seems right on the money.

Also, lis­ten­ing to these clips makes me feel like when I was a kid and my dad would sit me down at our creeky old din­ing room table and tell me some­thing impor­tant about life. It made me a stronger per­son. –well, every­thing except for that Birds and the Bees talk. That one con­fused me for years! ;-)

Related: Last time I saw my Nain (Nain is the Welsh word for grand­mother), she gave me some great advice.

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Nain’s Advice

June 6, 2009

Nain is the Welsh word for grand­mother. My nain Gwenda Thain was born on this day in 1922. In hon­our of her birth­day, I’d like to share some of the advice she’s given me this week:

  • Be hon­est with your­self and fol­low your convictions.
  • You’ve got to keep your own coun­cil. No one knows what I’m up to at any time.
  • When I have a con­fronta­tion I smile a lot.
  • Over time a rela­tion­ship becomes eas­ier. You grow kinder toward one another and make more allowances.
  • Col­lect garbage if that makes you happy; it doesn’t mat­ter what peo­ple think.
  • When­ever there is a prob­lem and peo­ple are inquir­ing you just smile and say, “I’m fine.” They don’t need to know.
  • Lis­ten care­fully to any­one who gives you advice. [Click to con­tinue the arti­cle, or to comment…]

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